One man discovered his wife’s infidelity after taking a DNA test, leaving his life in tatters.
It all began when the couple had a massive row, resulting in the man’s wife leaving the home. However, the couple – who has been together for 20 years – managed to reconcile their differences.
They were then thrilled to discover Kelly had become pregnant with twins. But, tragically, everything fell apart when ancestry DNA tests revealed that his twins had a different biological father, prompting his wife to confess what happened during their brief separation.
In a Reddit post, the devastated dad wrote: “Kelly has been crying and apologising constantly. She told me that during the time we had that fight at the start of our marriage, she got drunk one night and slept with a random guy, and that she has not cheated on me since.
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“The betrayal has left me disoriented. I told Kelly I needed time to process this and I’m currently staying at a hotel. I don’t know what I’m even doing anymore the last two days have been a blur.
“I feel like a zombie, completely unable to feel or process anything. I don’t intend to abandon my kids, I might not be their father, but I’m still their dad and I love them dearly.”
He reached out to other Reddit users for advice, admitting: “Right now, I’m sitting on my hotel bed and I have not eaten anything today.”
“My thoughts are a mess, so I’m writing this down to help me process. Kelly has always been a great wife and an excellent business partner. I don’t know if I’ll be able to look at her the same again or if I’ll be the same person again. I don’t know how to move forward.”
One Redditor responded: “First things first – you gotta take care of yourself. Get something to eat. Relax and watch TV. Just unwind a little. You’ve had a rough bit of news and that is world-shattering for anyone to have to deal with.”
“You need to focus on yourself right now. Just give yourself what you need and you will figure this out when you have time.”
“When you’re ready, you can convey your feelings to your wife. If she only cheated once then that’s your call if it’s too much or not. That’s not my place to comment. But you could salvage a family here if you are willing to work on it and wish to keep it together.”
“Make your decision, the biggest of your life, in a frame of mind where you’re at least physically okay (eating/sleeping, etc.) I’m sorry this happened to you but those are still your kids and life is not always black and white.”
